Archive for the Life Category

Jul 9 2015

Just Me and Him

Well Hello Everyone!!!  It has been such a long time!!  Being pregnant and having a toddler has kept me very busy…and tired!  Man, it is not easy!  And I know it is not going to get any easier once our baby girl is here, which will be any day now!  We are so excited and can’t wait!  But I am also trying to soak up these last few days of it being just my little guy and me.  There has been something so sweet about our 2 1/2 years together, home, just me and him.  He is going to be the best big brother, actually he already is.  He loves to rub my belly and talk to her, telling her how much he loves her.  Goodness, I love this kid!

IMG_1912 (1)

At night, as part of his bedtime routine he says “let’s talk about baby sister” and we go on to list all of the things we will do with her.  He gets the biggest grin on his face.  He tells me he’s going to “put on her pajamas, brush her teeth, give her her baby, and tuck her in at night.”  What a precious boy.  I feel so blessed to be his mommy.  What a sweet gift he is.  I’m so thankful to have had this time with him, but I am also so excited to meet his little sister.

luke and mommy


Hope you all have a great day!

Signature - Marissa

Mar 9 2015

Mommy Monday: St. Patrick’s Day Fun For Kids

Today I want to share some easy projects you can do with your kiddos for a little St. Patrick’s Day Fun:

1.  Leprechaun Scavenger Hunt– When I taught third grade I would do this every year and the kids loved it.  I left a little note sitting out that was “from the leprechauns.”  Each clue led us to a new hiding spot with another clue and then finally to the treasure which can be anything from a special treat, a book, play gold coins, etc.

2.  Rainbow Counting Book– I recently shared this fun project and thought you could tweak it to be more for St. Patrick’s Day by doing rainbows, leprechauns, pots of gold or shamrocks as the counting objects.

rainbow counting book

3. Make Chocolate Mint Trifles Together–  Alisa shared this recipe a while back and I think it would be great to make with your kiddos.  Brownies, pudding, whipped cream, and cookies…what’s not to love!!

Chocolate Mint Trifle 1

4.  Learn about St. Patrick– We went to our local library and checked out a couple books with the St. Patrick’s Day theme and read them together.  You could also google videos about St. Patrick for kids.  (Make sure to preview them first 😉 )


5. Do-A-Dot Rainbow– To make this rainbow we used the Do-A-Dots that can be found here.  We counted the dots as we made them.  Then we glued cotton balls for clouds at the ends of the rainbow.

rainbow do a dot


rainbow do a dot2

6.  Go on a Green Hunt –  Go around your house looking for things that are green.  Collect them in a basket or spot in the house and then count them, categorize them, and talk about what letter/sound they start with.

7.  Have a St. Patrick’s Day inspired snack/lunch– some suggestions would be to have green food such as kiwi, green jello, green grapes, zucchini, green apples.  You could get a shamrock cookie cutter and make shamrock shaped sandwiches for lunch!  Involve your little one in thinking of things to eat that would go with your theme.

*affiliate links used

Hope you have a wonderful week!

Signature - Marissa

Feb 25 2015

Being Vulnerable

Wow, I had no idea that my post on Monday would touch so many.  Thank you all for your kind words in the comments, texts, and on Facebook.  I was so moved by the love and support from family, friends, and strangers.  It seriously meant the world to me.  Thank you.

You know, I hesitated even writing the post because it was so personal and required me to be vulnerable…it’s not an easy thing for me to do probably like many of you.  But in hearing from all of you, I realized it is really important to share the things going on in our lives with others, even if it means being vulnerable in a way that isn’t comfortable.  Being vulnerable takes risk.  It takes stepping out and putting yourself out there with others.  But I think…no, I know the rewards can be great.

Recently I heard an amazing woman, Jen Jones speak at one of our MOPS meetings.  She talked about how life is a grab bag of pain.  We all reach in and take something out.  We all have struggles, hurts, wounds, painful experiences that we go through, but God has promised that “…All things work together for good to them that love God…” Romans 8:28.  Jen encouraged us to choose hope; to believe that there is good even when it is bad.  Because sometimes bad things happen let’s not deny that.  There is hard stuff that we go through, but I know God is good and even when I don’t understand it, I know His plan is perfect.  He has given us Himself, His word, the hope of heaven, and each other to get through the trying times.

I’ve watched as so many of my friends have stepped out boldly and shared their struggles, their pain, their stories.  I’m always so in awe of how they don’t let their pain go in vain.  They don’t let shame or embarrassment or the chance that tears will flow stop them from opening up and letting others into their lives.  I think that that is where true connection comes.  That’s where healing comes.  That’s where deep friendships are born and strengthened.  And that’s what we need.  We need people in our lives that truly know us and love us and that we can know and love right back.  We need to support and encourage one another through the good times and the hard times.  We need God and we need each other.  WE are the hands and feet of Jesus here on earth and have the opportunity to be someone that others can trust and turn to when they need a shoulder to cry on, a homemade meal, a cheerleader, someone to confide in.

I am just so thankful for my family, my friends near and far, my church family, and my MOPS group who support me and cheer me on.  What a gift that I do not take for granted for one second!  I thank the Lord for each one of you and I pray that you would have a tribe around you that encourages you no matter what season of life you are in.

Lots of love,

Signature - Marissa

Feb 23 2015

Mommy Monday: Beauty From Ashes

So, you know when you are young and your parents constantly say, “Be careful,”  “Call me when you get there,” “drive safe” or check on you when you are out or wait up for you to get home at night?  Well, my parents did that a lot, even into adulthood, and it kind of drove me a little crazy until I was older and realized it just showed how much they love me.  It felt good to have someone watching out for me.  It’s one of the things I miss most about my dad.  I miss a lot of things about him.  I miss his calls checking up on me or him having me stay on the phone with him until I got home or insisting I text him that I was safely inside the house even though we were 100 miles apart.

The other night I had the sweetest conversation with my two year old as I was headed out the door to go to a Bible study.  He is a mama’s boy and was concerned when he saw I was leaving.  I told him that he was going to have special “daddy & Luke” time, which helped him keep the tears from flowing that were welling up in his eyes.  He said an enthusiastic “ok” and then lovingly asked, “Mama, you coming back?”  “Of course I am buddy.  I always come back.”  To which he responded, “Ok…be careful mama, text me too!”  Melted my heart.  I instantly thought of my dad.


Since I lost my dad, one of the things that has been hard for me is feeling like there is one less person who truly loves me for me and cares for me.  But what I realized in that conversation with my son is that the Lord brought gave me a beautiful gift and reminder of my dad in my son.  He has many of the traits I loved most about my dad in him: his vibrant personality, his love of people and food and his deep love and care for the ones he loves.  A month after my dad’s passing the Lord brought a tiny baby into my life who would love me as much as my dad and add immense joy into my life even in the midst of grieving.  I don’t know the “whys” of pain and loss, but I do know that the Lord is there, loving us, carrying us through it, and He can bring beauty from ashes.  I am so thankful for my little “Jeffrey” who fills my life with love and joy and is a sweet reminder of my dad every time I look at him.



baby and dad

I am so thankful for how the Lord gives me little reminders of my dad in the most unexpected ways.

Signature - Marissa

Feb 20 2015

The Rancho Bernardo Inn

I have been wanting to stay at the Rancho Bernardo Inn ever since I laid eyes on it, so I was so honored to be chosen as the December 2014 #INNfluencer for the RB Inn.  It is a hidden gem in the heart of North County San Diego.  Set nestled back in a residential area of Rancho Bernardo the Inn is a quiet retreat filled with luxuries to enjoy.  The grounds are gorgeous and include a golf course, ballrooms, restaurants, pools, and spa facilities.

RB Inn14


RB Inn16


RB Inn15


RB Inn13

We were so excited to participate in their “December Nights,” which was a fun family event that included pictures with Santa, gingerbread cookie decorating, story time, music, snacks, and lots of beautiful Christmas decor and lights.

RB Inn12

RB Inn9


RB Inn10

As you can see we got our token picture with Santa 😉


My son really enjoyed decorating his gingerbread cookie.

RB Inn7

He enjoyed eating it too!

RB Inn8

Our room was beautiful, overlooking the golf course.

RB Inn2

My son loved the tent for him to sleep in provided by the hotel.  They even left him a new stuffed animal friend (now affectionately called Rainy in our family).  The RB Inn thought of so many great ways to make it special for families that came to enjoy the night.

RB Inn3

My sweet mother-in-law offered to take my son so that my husband and I could have the night to ourselves.  We enjoyed a delicious dinner just the two of us.  I didn’t have to cut anyone’s food, rush through dinner, or keep a little one entertained…it was wonderful!  We enjoyed every bite and sat for a long time talking and enjoying the atmosphere at the Veranda Fireside Lounge and Restaurant.  Their chips and guacamole was yummy and the salmon was amazing!  It was one of the best meals I have ever had!!  This was one of my favorite parts of our stay.






We ended the night cuddled up enjoying the fire….perfection!

RB Inn17

Mornings are beautiful and quiet at the Inn.  We enjoyed the Veranda’s breakfast buffet and once again took our time and enjoyed the views.

RB Inn4

It was fun to walk around the Inn and take in all the beauty it has to offer.

RB Inn5

Every once and a while my husband and I like to getaway just the two of us and the Rancho Bernardo Inn was the perfect spot!  We loved every minute!!

RB Inn6

If you are looking for a place to getaway and relax I highly recommend the Rancho Bernardo Inn.  You won’t be sorry!!!

*This was in collaboration with the Rancho Bernardo Inn.  As always all opinions are mine.

Signature - Marissa

Feb 16 2015

Mommy Monday: My Son’s Nursery Tour + An Announcement!

I can’t believe we are in the process of creating a big boy room for my son!  He was just a baby yesterday and now all of a sudden he is a big boy!  Time goes by so fast.  Some days I just stare at him memorizing his sweet little face with those big cheeks.  I want to just soak up this adorable 2 year old phase we are in.  Before I changed the room I wanted to document it in photos to remember all the sweet touches throughout the room.

For his nursery we went with a nautical theme.  I didn’t want it to be overpowering, just touches of it throughout the room.  I really like how it turned out!  So much love went into making this room for our sweet boy.  Welcome to Luke’s nursery!

boy nursery2


boy nursery6

I love every little detail in his room.  I love the beautiful crib bedding my mom made to make the room one of a kind.  So much time and love went into it.

boy nursery5

I love that my dad came up to spend the day with me and put together the crib with his own hands.  That day is one of my favorite memories with him.  I love that we have a picture that documents it hanging in my little one’s room. I may never be able to take that crib apart.

boy nursery


boy nursery4

I love that I rock him to sleep each night in the rocking chair that my dad was rocked in when he was a baby.  I love that my mother-in-law made that possible by recovering the chair for us because she knew how much that would mean to me.

boy nursery7

I love the framed invitation from my son’s baby shower that my sister lovingly created with her two hands and creative mind.  I love the precious newborn photos we were so blessed to have been gifted.

boy nursery9

So many memories in this sweet room.  I loved dreaming and creating and making things for it as I waited to meet our little guy.  The prints below I made with scrapbook paper and stamps.

boy nursery8

And although I will miss this room, I am so excited for the next phase!!  Especially making this room super girly for our baby girl due in July!!!!




I’ve got pink and mint on the mind for her nursery.  Here’s a little bit of my inspiration for the room.

girl nursery colors

As for my big boy, he’ll be getting an “explorer” room.  Can’t wait to show you all when it’s done!  Here’s a little sneak peak:

big boy room

You can also check out a room tour of our playroom if you are interested.

Thanks for stopping by!  I hope you have a great week!

Signature - Marissa

Jan 26 2015

Mommy Monday: DIY Child’s Prayer Book

Happy Monday everyone!

I hope you all had a wonderful weekend!  We had some beautiful weather here in Southern California.  Monday came too quick!!

Today I want to share a quick project that you can make for your kiddos.  Several years ago I made a prayer book for my nephew that turned out really cute so I decided to make one for my son as well.

prayer book

It is so simple and easy.  The idea is to flip through the book and pray for the loved one’s in the pictures.  It’s also great for learning family and friends’ names when your child is very young.

prayer book9

prayer book7


prayer book6

Here’s what I used to make the prayer book:


-photo book (I bought mine at Michaels…with a coupon of course!)

-photos of family and friends printed out 4×6

-scrapbook paper

-photo corners

-chalkboard paper (I got this at Micahels as well in a roll)

-White paint pen

-glue or tape


1.  Cut the scrapbook paper to size so it fits in the sleeves of your photo book.

2.  Glue or tape one photo onto each piece of scrapbook paper.  You can add photo corners like I did.  I still glued down my picture because I wasn’t sure if they would stay put with just the photo corners.

3.  Cut the chalkboard paper or paper or your choosing and glue underneath the photo.  Write the names of the people in the photo on the chalkboard paper using the paint pen.

prayer book8

4.  I made a quick cover using some of the chalkboard paper.

My son loves flipping through his prayer book and looking at all the people he loves!

prayer book3


prayer book2


prayer book10

This was great for us because we have some family that lives far away.  My son learned their names quickly with this book.  Now that he is a bit older we will start using the book to pray for the family and friends inside!

I hope you have a great day!

Signature - Marissa

Jan 19 2015

Mommy Monday: It’s The Little Things in Motherhood-Kermi

This little guy gave us a scare about a week ago.


If you know my son or follow me on Instagram you have probably picked up on that Kermi is an important member of our family.  I even started a hashtag #ohtheplaceskermigoes.  In fact, we don’t go ANYWHERE without him, which is what got us into trouble in the first place last week.  We have been very lucky to have taken him on numerous shopping trips, vacations, stayed with him in several hotels, visited the zoo, the Wild Animal Park, and gone on bike rides around the neighborhood, all ending with him returning safely home.  He’s been dropped and dragged more than I can count and has lived to tell about it.

A while back on Instagram I posted this picture of Kermi with a caption that said “Someday Kermi won’t be such a big part of our family.  I want to remember these sweet times and capture the little details of our life at each stage.”


Well….that day that he wouldn’t be apart of our family anymore…I figured it would be in the very far future when my son was a teenager. 😉 I didn’t think about the fact that we could lose him and that would be it.  Last Sunday, we went to church, with Kermi of course, like always.  After church I looked for Kermi, like I always do, to make sure he was with us…and he wasn’t there!  My husband ran back in to find him, but with no luck.  I had to check for myself!  But I came back empty handed too :( .  The dreaded day had come!  Luckily my mom had bought a back up Kermi (genius, right?!).  I gave him to my son and held my breath…He looked at the impostor and looked at me and said “new Kermi mama?” and then went back to what he was doing.  Relief came over me, but then so did sadness.  was sad!  I wanted the old Kermi back!


I don’t really remember my son without Kermi.  Kermi was a Christmas gift from grandma (my mom) to my sweet little boy when he was only about 2 months old.  From the very beginning, he loved his Kermi.  It brought him comfort and joy.  Sure he had grown shaggy, his arms were atrophying, the thread on his eyes coming undone, been washed a million times in his short life, but all that just showed how much he was loved.  I prayed that Kermi would come back to us. (Yes, I prayed for a stuffed animal :) ).  We had shared so many sweet memories with that shaggy little green frog and I wanted to make more with him as my little boy grew.







It got me thinking about all the little and wonderful ways my life has changed since becoming a mom.  Sure I have less sleep and more laundry, but I also have more laughs, more smiles, and more joy.  I find myself excited to see a bus or cement mixer coming down the road so I can point them out to my little man and watch him squeal with delight.  I know all of the characters to Thomas The Tank Engine, I find cute little tiny socks on my living room floor, I am constantly humming “Jesus Loves Me” all day, and I pray for stuffed animals.  And I wouldn’t change that for the world!

Embrace The Camera: Day 5

Luckily this story has a happy ending!  When we showed up to MOPS this week at our church Miss Susan said she had something for Luke!  It was Kermi!!!  My little guy was a little confused to hold two Kermies in his hand, but mama was so excited to have our Kermi back!  It’s the little things in motherhood, isn’t it!  Haha!  Welcome home Kermi and thanks for reminding us to enjoy the little things!


If you missed some of my other Mommy Monday posts with thoughts on motherhood you can check them out below.

It Takes a Village /  Lessons from My Little One  /  Fire Trucks, Airplanes, and The Garbage Man

Have a great day, everyone!

Signature - Marissa

Jan 8 2015

2015 Goal Setting & Free Printables

Happy New Year everyone!  I hope you all had a wonderful holiday break.  If you are new to our blog welcome!  We are so glad to have you here!  We hope this little space brings you encouragement, inspiration or just a small break from your hectic day.  Check out some of our past posts by selecting one of the categories at the top of the page.  Don’t be shy…leave us a comment or send us an email.  We’d love to get to know you better!

I hope this new year finds you refreshed, energized and hopeful for the coming year.  January is one of my favorite months (okay maybe I am biased because it is my birthday month).  But, I find it is a time to reflect on the past year and see what you accomplished and also what didn’t work so well.  It’s the perfect opportunity to start a clean slate and set some goals for the new year.

Goals Printable

Last year I made a goal setting printable to write down goals for 2014.  I thought I’d create another printable for you to use this year.  It might be fun to sit down with your spouse or your family and write down your goals together.  Talk about how you can encourage each other to accomplish your goals and how you can hold one another accountable throughout the year.  Don’t feel like you need to fill in every line.  If you want to add more details on how you will achieve the goals, print another copy and fill in the details on the 2nd page.  I created it so that you could use this sheet from year to year, simply writing the current year in the dedicated space.  You can download a copy of the printable by clicking on the following link: Goals For the New Year Printable PDF

Last year I shared some tips for you to think about when creating your goals:

  • Specific: What do you want to accomplish?  Include details like what, when, why and how.
  • Measurable: Are you able to track your progress?
  • Attainable: Is your goal realistic? It is important to set challenging goals, but make sure they are within your reach.  Try setting smaller goals that are steps to completing a larger goal.
  • Relevant: Does it align with your vision, values, dreams and abilities?  Is it meaningful?
  • Time-bound: Does your goal have a set completion date?  Create a schedule or time frame to help you reach this date.

Setting goals can be overwhelming.  Below the picture of the printable, I’ve created some prompts/questions to consider in each category that I hope will help you in coming up with your goals.   Choose a combination of few short-term and long-term goals. and don’t forget to think SMART!

Download Printable Here

Goals For The New Year

Download Printable Here


  • Is there a Bible study group you’ve wanted to join?
  • Do you want to set aside more time for prayer or daily devotionals?
  • Is there something you need to give over to God?


  • Do you have a habit you’d like to break?
  • Is there a character trait that you want to improve upon?
  • Are there areas in your life want to be more intentional about? (friendships, etc.)
  • Is there a new skill you would like to learn? (photography, painting, etc.)


  • Do you want to set aside more dedicated time with that person? (date night, etc.)
  • Which areas in your marriage/relationship would you like to strengthen?
  • Is there an area you would like to serve the other person better in?  What is their love language?


  • Is there a trip you want to go on as a family?
  • Is there an activity you could do more often as a family? (volunteer, sports, etc.)


  • Are there conversations with your boss you have putting off? (raise, promotion, etc.)
  • Is there a course you want to take to increase your knowledge on a subject?


  • Is there a weight loss goal you’d like to reach?
  • Are you drinking enough water? (This is definitely going to be one of mine :) )
  • Are there certain foods you want to cut back on?


  • Is there a loan you would like to pay off?
  • Is there something you’d like to purchase that you need to save for?
  • Is there something you would like to cut back on to save money?
  • Is there an organization you would like to donate to or do you want to set a side more money to tithe?
  • Do you have an emergency fund?

Home Improvement:

  • Are there DIY projects you want to accomplish?
  • Are there areas in your house that you want to organize?
  • Does something need repairing?

I added a space for you to note places you would like to travel to or visit.  Nothing energizes me more than traveling and taking some time off…I think that is really important.  It doesn’t need to be somewhere expensive or require an airline ticket.  Just go for a drive one weekend and explore an area you have never been to before!

Lastly, I added Proverbs 16:9 verse as a reminder that no matter how much we plan our life, God is ultimately in control.  Though we may think we know what is best for us, nothing can compare to God’s perfect plan for our life.  No matter how painful, discouraging and confusing it can be when things don’t go the way I have planned, I have to cling to this truth.  It’s what brings me hope and I hope it does for you as well.  One of my favorite song’s “Today is Beautiful” by David Dunn has the most beautiful lyrics that speaks to this.  I created a printable to share with all of you.  To download, click on the link below. A new window or tab will appear with the image of the printable.  Right click on the image and select “Save As”.  Open the file you just saved to your computer and select the program you would like to open it in.  You can then print to the size you desire on cardstock paper!

Heaven’s View Printable

Heavens View Printable

I Hope you got some ideas for your 2015 goals and that you find the goals printable useful!  Print it on cardstock, fold it and put it in your calendar, or tape it to your office wall with a cute piece of washi tape to inspire you every time you look at it!  Please share some of your goals for this year in the comments section.  Today I’m linking up with Bloom Designs.

Signature - Alisa

Jan 5 2015

Mommy Monday: Kid’s Train Birthday Party + party planning tips

Hi Friends!!

It’s been a LONG time!  We took a bit of a break but we are back!!  We missed you all!  Today I wanted to share with you my son’s train birthday party (yep, it was in October and I’m just now getting around to posting about it…better late than never, right?).  I also wanted to share some tips that have helped me when party planning to simplify and get the most out of the money you spend.  My little guy loves trains so we went with that theme this year.  I started the party planning and prep a little later than I normally do which caused me to simplify a bit.  Plus I had A LOT of help from my mom and sister!

train party 09


My husband helped me make the railroad crossing signs.  Super easy and cheap.  A couple cuts, nails, paint, and letters modge podged on and done!

train party 10


The birthday boy loved the train theme and eagerly awaited his guests!

train party 12


I kept the decor pretty simple and used tissue pom poms, crepe paper and circle garland to add some color.


train party 01


train party 08


train party 20


I didn’t plan any games because the kiddos are still pretty small.  I had some train coloring sheets for them to do, but mostly they ran around outside.

train party 06

train party 07


We ate outside on long tables family style.  I kept it pretty simple with white table cloths, burlap runners, sunflowers, lanterns and some toy trains that my Great uncle Roger made…I loved incorporating those into the party!


train party 25


train party 23


For food we had pulled pork sandwiches (super easy in the crock pot!) and sides to go with it.  Thanks to my mom who did all the cooking!  We had a “fueling station” for guests to snack on.  That was a big hit with the kiddos!


train party 18


train party 19


train party 27


My mom made this adorable train cake that the birthday boy went nuts over!

train party 21


train party 37


train party 38


The kids had a blast together!  So grateful for wonderful friends and family who made the day extra special!

train party 34


train party 33


train party 30


train party 31


For party favors, we gave away little bubbles with an adorable tag that my sister made!

train party 03


train party 04


It was such a great day.  The birthday boy had so much fun!  I still can’t believe he is two!

train party 35

train party 39

Tried and True Tips:

-Find a theme that your child likes.  It will make him/her excited and the ideas will come more naturally to you since it’s an interest of your child’s.  I was also able to use a lot of things we already had around the house like my son’s train for the wreath and other trains for table decor.

-Pinterest is your best friend when you are party planning!  Create a board for the party and pin away.  Come back to it for tutorials and source lists.

-Keep the guest list small.  Invite just a few families of kiddos the same age.  It cuts down on the amount of food and supplies you need and I found that it gave me more quality time enjoying my guests.  If the guest list is too large I end up feeling like all I did was run around hosting and I didn’t get to connect with everyone.

-Keep the menu simple.  We chose pulled pork sandwiches because we could buy the meat in bulk and then put it in the crock pot…super easy!  It was filling and yummy!  Add a few sides and you are set!

-Use things around the house for decor.  You probably already have things you can use that will go with your theme.

-To save on money borrow things from friends and offer them to do the same.  I had been looking for red lanterns to buy, but borrowed them from my friend, Jennie, and saved myself some money!

-Use paper and fabric for lots of decor ideas.  It’s a great way to get a lot of bang for your buck!  It’s amazing what you can do with a yard of fabric.  I love making the pennant banners.  They add great color and are so festive.  With a coupon you can get some fabric for $3/yard or maybe even cheaper!  Scrapbook paper can also go a long way.  I use it for banners, circle garland as well as extra color on tables for runners and/or place mats.  Crepe paper is inexpensive (try the 99 cent store) and can add a lot to your decor.

-After the party if you don’t know what to do with the party decor and don’t think you will resuse it, try selling it to your friends on Facebook or other places.  You can create more space in your garage and get back some of the money you spent on the party.  Someone else will appreciate not having to do all the work too!  It’s a win win!

Are you planning any parties coming up?  I hope some of these tips will help make it less stressful and easier on your wallet so that you can enjoy the company of your guests!

For more ideas on parties you can click around below:

I’m linking up with Bloom Designs Online.  Have a great week!

Signature - Marissa